Every culture has its own wedding traditions but perhaps Greece has one of the more widely recognised ceremonies, thanks to exposure in films and television in the past decade.  Most weddings held in this sunny Mediterranean destination take place within the framework of Greek Orthodox Church, and as such there are a number of dates such as Lent, the 40 days preceding Christmas and the first two weeks in August (a time to celebrate the Virgin Mary) that are off limits to couples wishing to marry.  However, the most popular time of year, similar to many other European countries, is early summer. 
 
Traditional Greek weddings are steeped in ancient customs.  For a Greek couple, the engagement is a binding agreement unlikely to be broken, and a party is held with family members and close relatives to determine the date of the ceremony – weddings are very much a family event in Greece!
 
On the morning of the ceremony the koumbaro (best man) will shave the groom to signify the trust between them, while the koumbara (maid of honour) will help prepare the bride.  The wedding attire is similar to western styles, with a white dress worn by the bride and a suit and bowtie adorned by the groom.  The ceremony itself is a demonstration of a number of unique traditions.  An important part of the ceremony, the koumbaro will exchange the rings three times with the couple before they are placed on the right hands of the bride and groom; they will then hold hands for the rest of the ceremony as a symbol of unity. 
 
At this highly emotional point, the priest will crown the couple with two wreaths connected with a ribbon.  Taking their first steps as man and wife, they will proceed to the alter, light a candle and drink from a shared cup of wine before circling the alter three times to symbolise the celebration of their union.  After the symbolic-rich ceremony, an extravagant reception with food and music will follow.  The highlight of the ceremony – a gathering of loved ones, laughter and many blessings – the bride and groom will engage in a traditional Kaslamantiano dance where guests will from a circle around the couple. 
Traditional Greek families will end the reception with the bride going to the home of her new husband, where the ‘wedding flag’ will be raised.  Before crossing the threshold, she will throw a piece of old iron into the roof to symbolise the strength of her new home and the everlasting bond of love. 

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